If, through all your best efforts, you decide your marriage just cannot work in a healthy way, I help you to help each other and your children through the emotional process of divorce. Once the decision is made, you are free to give up your anger and to see each other through a different lens, accepting what is.  Life does goes on. If you are willing to take this step, you can have a good divorce; your children can be protected from the devastation of a high conflict divorce; you can go forward in your own individual lives.

I can help you create a parenting plan and I can help you avoid the vulnerabilities that come from high conflict attorneys.  I have been in this business long enough to know, however, that both of you must be willing to let go and go on.  If one of you is tied into retribution, you can spend a fortune, destroy your children’s childhood and damage their lives going forward, as well as your own.

The healthiest and happiest people choose the first option. With divorce counseling, this is our goal.